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Finding Your Voice


Wow, it has been a while since I wrote out some of my thoughts.  It's been a crazy whirlwind lately.  Sometimes you just have to be quiet till you work your way through the storms. There’s a world out there screaming all sorts of messages at us.  Conform, give in, give up, follow the crowd, etc. Within the swirling tornado of messages, it becomes so difficult to hear your own thoughts or to hear God speak to you. Can you relate at all?


I find myself getting sucked down by the hidden subtle messages and being true to myself becomes a real challenge. It’s so easy to feel you don’t fit in, you're not good enough, you aren’t beautiful enough, you will never be popular, and on and on play the messages of doubt and discouragement. 

I’ve written about this often, and I know the signs. I get quiet. I don’t know what to say. I feel suffocated by the voices within my own head. How do I shut them up?!  In this crazy social media supercharged world, I’m trying to find my voice. I feel my message is clear and different. But the struggle lies in being drowned out by voices louder than my own. 

I want to be heard. I want to be accepted. I want to be loved and valued. And I believe my business and our story is worthy of respect and support. But sometimes those with the large following seem to suck up all the social media energy. Meanwhile I’m over here shouting at no one but myself. Hello!  I’m here. I’ve got a great product you should try. I’ve got a great thriving story that you should hear and yet...



I push on. I dig deeper and I press in to doing more of what I love. I reset my beliefs and I evaluate what I’m doing. I brainstorm and plan on the next steps. I won’t give in. I won’t give up. I believe in me even when the crowd may not see me. 

Being heard within the symphony of social sounds  is challenging. Yet I believe the way to be heard is to be yourself. Hard to do but so vital. So here I am today. Sharing my perspective and telling you that I and my designs are going nowhere but forward. You need me and what I do! You need my product because through it we are helping change people’s opinions of mental health. How many people are doing that?



ReThrive is about resetting your success button over and over. In life, living, family, home, business and style. Learning to thrive and be your best self takes so much work and faithful commitment to integrity and passion. 

So go hit that reset button with me. Strap on your weapons of warfare and go be you and do it with all your might. ReThrive today, tomorrow and every moment that you live, until you get it right. 

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